Your Perception of the Role of Wife

If your engaged girlfriend would say to you, "My dear, after you graduate, let's go to do this." How would you feel?

Setting aside what "this" may be, are you offended by "let's" that she said? Do you feel offended that this girl is managing your life and stepping over her line as your girlfriend? Do you feel she is being presumptuous and disrespectful towards you as a man? Would you like to have a wife such as that?

I should add, if you are a woman, share with us what your boyfriend, or your husband, or your father's perception, if you may; and how do you feel about that?

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